Sample Legacy Letters

Below are examples of Legacy Letters. Some are short, others long; some are contemporary and others date back to medieval times. They are written by a variety of people including grandparents, parents, an aunt, a 29-year-old woman with cancer, a mother to her unborn child, and a 100-year-old woman. I hope they spark ideas for your Legacy Letter.

Please feel free to send me your Legacy Letter via the contact page. I could possibly post it on this page. The letter can be anonymous, if that makes you feel more comfortable.

  • A tribute Legacy Letter from adult daughter to her parents
  • A five page letter from a mother to her teenage children
  • A one-paragraph Legacy Letter
  • A two-page Legacy Letter
  • A thirteen-page Legacy Letter from a grandfather to his children and grandchildren
  • An introduction from an eight-page Legacy Letter
  • A letter from a 100-year-old woman
  • A Legacy Letter from a dying 29 year old woman
  • A Legacy Letter was written by a 38-year-old to her as yet unborn child
  • A Legacy Letter by an aunt for her nieces and nephews
  • A Legacy Letter from a mother written to her son
  • President Obama's Legacy Letter to his daughters
  • A medieval ethical will (1 of 2)
  • A medieval ethical will (2 of 2)
  • A letter from a 78-year-old mother to her son
  • A letter from a mother in her 70's writing to her adult son and daughter
  • A letter from an 84 year-old mother and grandmother with early Alzheimer’s

  • An example of a two-page Legacy Letter:

    My loves [three teenage children],

    It is you who have been at the heart of my adult life. Choosing to be Dad's partner in your becoming, from conception to young adulthood, has been fundamental to most of my decisions and has been at the root of a very fulfilling life.

    I expect that I will be around for a long time and that I will continue to do what I have always done with you, which is to keep the appropriate balance of holding you close and letting you go. What I have tried to do, together with Dad, is to give you the most solid base we could - of family, of home, of summer places, of schooling. Layered on top of that we have tried to give you freedom to try out life on your own terms. It has been an elastic, evolving balance of giving roots and wings, of providing freedom within a structure.

    Sometimes you and we have differed on the degree and nature of the structure necessary! And I suspect there still will be differences well into the future - but such is the give/take, push/pull of the whole business and of the nature of love itself.

    Whether I am present or not, I hope that as you live out your own lives you can maintain the balance of the familiar and the unfamiliar by creating a solid base from which you can securely approach your options and enjoy what you have created. The most important thing that I can bequeath to you is something that I hope I have already given you: a deep conviction of your own worth that translates into personal standards and instincts that will steer you in your relationships, inspire you to believe yourself to be a fully contributing citizen of the world, and enable you to create your own version of "home."

    Along these lines, I hope you each will: Stay connected to Dad and me and with each other. You are securely part of a family, but don't take the relationships for granted. Know what is going on each other's lives, in Dad's and my lives. Your ties to each other will be the longest ties you have - keep them well nourished; purposefully keep track of each other's emotional well being; provide support for each other in good times and difficult times.

    Connect with your grandparents while they are alive - seek them out, write them, visit them, read what they have written. You will always be glad you did.

    Maintain a sense of being part of an extended family of many branches. Nurture your relationships with your cousins and aunts and uncles. Tell the family stories to each other and to the next generations. Make sure the family records and writings are kept intact and passed down.

    Sources: Leah Dobkin, www.PersonalLegacyAdvisors.com, http://www.ethicalwill.com/examples.html, http://www.life-legacies.com.